Pro-tips for Penetration Prep
I had a friend of mine ask me how to prepare for anal the other day so I figured I would put the info out there for all sexes to learn from so everyone can enjoy anal as much as I do! I feel like many people do not engage in anal sex, or they feel anxiety about it because they are worried about the natural consequence of playing with buttholes... sometimes you just get shit on. Here are a few tips I have compiled over the years for those of you bottoming AND topping for anal play! If you want to be fully prepared I would suggest planning ahead. 1. If you are going to have anal sex refrain from eating a huge meal of Mexican food the day before. I would suggest to eat light, and depending on when you are planning to engage in anal play perhaps drink a smoothie the night before for dinner to avoid large solid amounts of food. 2. Prepare your butthole. For many the average dick (or strap on) is far too large to be directly inserted. Not if you are going for a more pleasurable, easy going experience. I often suggest to wear an anal plug the day before and depending on when you are engaging in anal play even the day of to help to loosen yourself up and get used to the feeling of having something in your ass because for many beginners it can be a very strange feeling at first, don't worry, you will learn to love it. 3. Enema. I always have slaves enema prior to anal play, I also enema when I indulge in anal play in my private life. I have found it most effective to enema a few hours prior to anal play, so like to enema more than once sometimes the night before and a few hours prior. It is all up to you! I would not suggest using an enema directly before anal play as that can back fire at times. Enemas can be purchased at a drug store or grocery store and have instructions that are easy to follow. 4. Take it easy. When I indulge in anal play as a top I always first use a few fingers to assess the situation, to see just how tight the hole is before just ramming my strap on in there. I use a lot of lube and test the waters, first with one finger, two, and then three. If you are in to anal play it is always a good idea as a top to indulge in foreplay which helps the recipient relax, if it is within your limits finger, eat out and play with the butt before just going balls deep. If your bottom is turned on, relaxed and feeling it this facilitates a much more enjoyable experience for both parties. 5. Have fun! Don't let the fear of poop stop you from having a great time. Anal play is an extremely enjoyable experience. Despite all the preparation it must always be remembered by both parties that when you play with fire you might get burned, accept it. Relax and enjoy. Poop happens, don't be ashamed, just laugh it off. Anyone who is mature enough to be having anal sex is required by my beliefs to also be mature enough to deal with poop. Now, don't let this scare you as it doesn't happen often, especially when you prepare properly! So spread those cheeks and get playing!